A healthy marital relationship is like a friendship

A healthy marital relationship is like a friendship.

When you're upset with your spouse,
ask yourself this question:
"If this person were my best friend,
how would I react and behave?"

#RichardCarlson #Healthy #MarriageRelationship #DontSweatTheSmallStuffInLove #FriendlyMarriage

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