Do grandparents favor paternal or maternal grandchildren?
Ahead of the upcoming holiday when the whole family gathers together, I would like to touch upon a sensitive topic today. It is about the inner, unspoken feelings of grandparents toward their grandchildren. "Do grandparents favor paternal or maternal grandchildren?" Here, we reveal the complex and candid feelings of grandparents. Modern grandparents show two entirely different styles of affection depending on the situation and the child. The first is the affection toward maternal grandchildren , which stems from "daily caregiving and emotional comfort." Nowadays, grandparents feel an invisible barrier called "walking on eggshells around the daughter-in-law" when dealing with paternal grandchildren. Fearing that their actions might be uncomfortable, their expressions of love become cautious and formal. On the other hand, in front of maternal grandchildren born to their own dearly beloved daughter, all defenses drop. Thanks to comfortable communication with...