The Illusion of Being a Good Speaker

Yesterday, I had a long phone call with Mr. Choi for work purposes.

Their pride in being an articulate speaker was evident throughout the conversation, and after hours of talking, they didn't even ask for my thoughts.
It was nothing significant, just a confirmation call, but it left me mentally drained, wanting to hang up as soon as possible.In conversations,
there are people who talk excessively to the point of exhaustion.
They could simply say "If this, then that" or "If that, then this,"
but instead, they go on and on about this and that,
saying things like "If we do this, it might be like that, and if we do that, it might be like this,"
"Considering this situation, I wonder if we should do this..."
It's more like a rambling speech without a conclusion.From my experience, people who talk a lot have these commonalities:
They tend to be thin.
In the case of men, they are very domestic.
They don't have wide social circles.
They have feminine tendencies.
They tend to be meticulous.While everyone has their strengths and weaknesses,
I think it's a significant flaw if people find it intimidating to start a conversation with you.
Of course, being too quiet is also a problem...#TalkativePeople, #Commonalities, #PeopleWhoCannotSpeak, #SilenceIsBetter, #Communication, #Difficulties, #NotGoodAtSpeaking

Comments

Post a Comment

Popular posts from this blog

Introducing Gyeonggi Techno Park

Introducing Gyeonggi Techno Park, a source of pride for me. The South Korean government identified Silicon Valley as the driving force behind the Third Industrial Revolution in the United States and formulated a medium to long-term plan for strengthening the technological infrastructure in 1995. To foster regional-specific strategic projects and achieve national balanced development, it established a special law on supporting industrial technology complexes and designated regional technoparks in 1998. In Gyeonggi Province, six regions participated in a competition to attract technopark projects, among which the consortium backed by the national industrial complex Smart Hub, located in Ansan City, was selected as the operator of Gyeonggi Techno Park. Since its establishment in 1998, it has attracted government-funded projects to nurture bio, robotics, IT, and automotive small and medium-sized enterprises (SMEs). Simultaneously, it aimed to attract overseas global companies and national ...
Read more

A Company Without Resignations

A Company Without Resignations The majority of reasons for resigning are due to a lack of autonomy. Most criticisms of companies also stem from a lack of autonomy. Autonomy comes with responsibility. It's said that when responsibility, authority, and autonomy are granted, turnover rates decrease even if compensation is lower than competitors. Autonomy leads to an effect where individuals identify themselves with the organization. Thus, autonomy simultaneously provides tremendous energy and pride. "When accustomed to autonomy and authority, the thought of resigning doesn't even cross one's mind." #Resignation #Without #Company #Autonomy #Independence #Authority #Management
Read more